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A Change so Profound

Welcome. If this is the first time that you have visited this blog you where see the latest posts at the beginning, which I update from time to time even though more than ten years have now passed from when our sons became a part of our life story. Child loss changed me so profoundly that I cannot say whether I am where I am today despite, or because of, the extraordinary events we lived through. All I know is that I am nothing like the person before and continue to learn to be more patient, more empathic and more compassionate to others. It takes time and space between traumatic events to process them.  They overwhelm so completely at the time that you lose all sense of perspective and the spiral, by default, pulls you downward. For me, it felt like just as I was able to accommodate, and somehow come to terms with, the reality of what we were living through.  When mentally we were able to put together a plan to move we then received another blow.  It felt relentless.  It was easier to

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